The week was off to a good start with another rendez-vous with the cool waitress, Salome, and her boyfriend. We taught them another full lesson and gave them another commitment. The boyfriend also started reading the Book of Mormon which is awesome! I've been on my mission for over 5 months now, and this is the first time that I've taught a person more than once. I am so happy with this couple! To finish, they told us that they might come to church on Sunday, without us having even invited them to do so. Because they're from Africa, they asked us if there are missionaries in each of their respective hometowns to teach their family. That was also really cool. These types of people are definitely not a common occurrence to find here in France, so we're working with them the best we can. We cannot afford to lose them, no matter what. Pray for us, however, as we get close to teaching them about the Law of Chastity. They said that they want us to teach them everything we know, except for anything about "fornication", because that's what they're doing right now haha. On the bright side, they agree and enjoy everything else we say! The boyfriend literally said, "I enjoy you guys coming over because I want people to feed upon the words of Christ with." Pretty cool, huh? We also got pics with them that I'll put in my photo album.
The next day we had our mangez-vous for lunch with the two employees at that Alain store that Elder Payne has shopped at. This was a complete FLOP. So I honestly don't think that they understood what missionaries were when we explained our purpose to them the other week. Imagine our surprise when the pretty woman that works there didn't show up, but only the gay man... Whose only intention was to see if either of us were gay (I think he thought that me and Elder Payne were boyfriends because we said we lived together... oops). So in his mind, meeting him for lunch was quite literally a DATE. Haha! I thought that there was potential for him to become an investigator. Boy was I wrong! So as soon as we got to this sandwicherie, he asked us all about what we were doing there. Great! We explained our purpose and expressed a deep love for Jesus, which he then reprimanded us for! He said that religion is actually bad for society. That made things awkward. We were just like, "okay". Then he asked us what we thought about sex before marriage. I decided that I needed to take over from here, because Elder Payne is usually really blunt and harsh with things like this. I'm a little more mindful of others. So I was really nice about it and just said that we, personally, choose not to. He wasn't amused.Then he asked us if we liked guys or girls. Not understanding the question, I said, "yes." LOL. He was shook! Then, after Elder Payne clarified what he said, I took back my response. He, again, wasn't happy finding out that we were both straight, Christian missionaries. Then the rest of the time was awkward and we tried talking to him, but he wouldn't really respond. He was mad. I felt really bad after this, because I was honestly so nice to him. It kind of ruined my day in a way, because I'm here to make people happy. But I eventually realized that no matter what, he would've been mad at the end. Finding out that the guys you're crushing on are both straight and religious is pretty devastating haha.
After that bad lunch, we bought some Madeleine cakes from a store to deliver to that rich old couple that we found last week. They haven't reached out to us since then, so we decided to take the initiative. We got all the way over there and, upon knocking, the lady opened her bedroom window on the top floor. I held up the Madeleines and a note I wrote and said, "for you," she laughed and closed the window to come down and talk to us. When she opened the door she tried to decline the gift, but I kinda forced her to take it haha. She was touched by it and got a little teary-eyed. She then invited us back over next week to talk more. I'd say it was a success there. I just hope they end up being receptive to our message. They might become new investigators, who knows?
Later that night we had our Branch's family home evening at Alhin's house that we were asked to prepare the message for. It was kind of sad because no one showed up besides us and one Sister in the Branch. We gave the lesson then Alhin fed us a Galette de Rois. I had the piece with the bean in it, so I was crowned the King of the night again haha. After that, Alhin took us through the McDonald's drive-thru. I'll post pictures of this in my album as well, as this was my first time getting food at McDonald's here. Alhin is so good to us. McDonald's here is expensive, so I really appreciated it.
The next day we had exchanges with the District Leader and his companion in St. Die. I was kinda nervous not gonna lie, because he's just as new in the mission as I am, so neither of us understand a ton of French. But it ended up going really well, so I'm so grateful for that. That's the power of prayer my friends. We first did some street contacting. It was ice cold outside but we got a good amount of people that were willing to talk to us. They were all nice, but not interested. There was one man that was in a rush, but ended up setting up a rendez-vous with us for another date and giving us his phone number. After we met him, there was a homeless man that approached me. He started asking me all sorts of things like, "why did God rest on the 7th day?" and "why do so many people disregard God as a source for their happiness in life?". There were some other questions I didn't understand, so he spoke some really broken English to me. He said he knew English because he lived in Germany for 8 months haha? What? He was honestly a pretty cool homeless man, but sadly he ended up getting a phone call on his iPhone and wandered off. After him, we had a rendez-vous set up at one of their investigator's houses. He was really nice and we read from the Book of Mormon with him. He's Atheist, but likes the missionaries because he respects all religions, which I think is admirable about him. He did say, however, that his 13 year old son sometimes falls asleep reading the Book of Mormon, so that's cool! His son wasn't there at the moment, but we're hoping for a lot of success with him. After that, we ended the day with some finding. We went to some ghetto apartments and knocked on doors. Most of the people either didn't answer or didn't want to talk. We were kind of out of hope because the only guy who was willing to talk the whole night opened his door wearing nothing but a thong and it was extremely uncomfortable for us lol. Thank goodness he was a little busy at the moment haha. It kind of seemed like we weren't going to find success, but we eventually did! The last door we knocked on was this really cool guy that was apparently an old investigator! He's was super chill and we set up another rendez-vous with him for Sunday night. And he was dropped as an investigator over 6 months ago, so he counts as an investigator again! The night ended really well for us and I honestly think it's because we prayed about where to find and we were guided to the right spot.
The next morning, we got an early train back to Epinal which took a few hours. After we got back, we had to catch another long train to take us to a lesson/dinner with one of our in-active Serbian families. The mom is the only member, so we decided to direct our lesson to the dad and the 8-year-old daughter. To our dismay, their daughter was still at school and the dad was honestly just uninterested. The mom served us some really good food and then we watched The Restoration movie with them. Expecting it to be a really cool experience for them, we were shook when all they said afterward was, "that's the fourth time we've watched that with missionaries." Then Afrodita, the mom, said, "I asked my daughter if she wanted to get baptized and she said "no"." We had brought up that her daughter was old enough to get baptized last time we went to their house and it looks like they actually considered it! The only problem? They don't explain things to her and they always have her go into another room when we go over because "church talk is adult talk". LOL. So anyway, we set up another meeting with them next Saturday for when their daughter won't be at school. Hopefully we can teach her more about baptism and such then, so we're excited. Any ideas on how to get the parents to help us out? Everyone knows that an 8-year-old kid needs their parents' encouragement and such before they know whether or not baptism is good for themselves.
The next morning, we had our third rendez-vous with the cool waitress, Salome, and her boo. We had planned to teach them about the Plan of Salvation this time, but that changed when they asked more questions about Joseph Smith. We then watched the Restoration video with them, which made this my second time watching it this week. We then bore our testimonies to them. I think they felt the Spirit really strongly, but they just didn't want to show it. He said that he's still unsure about our prophet right now and is holding off reading the Book of Mormon until he is done reading the Bible. But he still said that he likes "feasting upon the Words of God" with us and wants us to continue teaching him. He also wants us to teach him English. Towards the end of the lesson, he wanted to say the prayer so we let him. Elder Payne sent him a version of "Amazing Grace" and now it's all he listens to during our lessons. He thinks it's so beautiful and put it on during his prayer. During the chorus, the song gets really loud and powerful, so he started yelling his prayer over the music haha. Then we invited him to church and he agreed! He even said that he'd go out and buy a suit just for the occasion so that he can look nice. What the heck?! This guy is amazing. Later that night we had our weekly dinner with Alhin. He hasn't been feeling good this whole week, so we gave him a blessing. It was really cool and you could tell he was so grateful for it. The spirit was really strong that whole day and it made me really happy.
On Sunday, we woke up extra early and quickly got ready. Then we walked all the way over to Salome's apartment to pick her and her boyfriend up for church. They only got 3 hours of sleep last night, but they were still up and ready for us!!! Like these people are such a miracle! Her boyfriend didn't buy a suit, but they did dress in nice clothes. Then they drove us back to the church. They were the first people there and it was a little awkward. Soon enough, more and more people came. We actually had more people there than usual which was nice! I was really worried that they'd feel a little odd, because most of our branch are old white people and they're young Africans. LUCKILY, we had good diversity in our attendance today. That means that both of the little kids were there, both of the youth were there (one of them is African herself), and an Italian visitor. The Italian visitor was actually really chill and talked to us in English because he doesn't know French. Then they asked him to bless the sacrament with me, and to make him feel more comfortable I told him that we'd both do it in English. Boy, was that weird! I haven't blessed the sacrament in English in forever, so it was really strange but cool. The Branch was really thrown off by this, but I think that they over-all enjoyed it. After that, me and Elder Payne went and sat down by Salome and her boyfriend. Her boyfriend was dead asleep during the first talk, but woke up for the second one which was really good and powerful. Today was honestly a great Sunday, filled with very powerful messages. I couldn't be happier with how it turned out. Salome had work after sacrament meeting, so they sadly had to go... But the Branch made sure to all talk to them and make them feel welcomed. I was really worried about this too, seeing how our Branch is generally a little unaccepting haha. Then the Italian man came up to me and said that he's more than willing to come with us to rendez-vous with members/investigators anyday this week after 7, even though he can't speak French. How nice? Man, this Sunday was amazing. I was praying that Sunday would be good for our investigators all week, and it looks like God answered those prayers. I couldn't be more satisfied! I'll add pics of this Sunday to my album, so look out for that!
This week was one of the best I've had yet and it really is all because of the power of prayer. I've been praying constantly since I've gotten here and I know lots of you have been praying for me too. I'm now seeing all this progress and it makes me so happy. It took a lot of hard work and now everything is finally coming together. Thanks for all of your prayers and support. They mean the World to me and I know that they really do help missionaries like me.
How are all of you doing? Email me about life. I'd love to hear from all of you. Thanks for the weekly encouragement and emails. They really mean a lot. #Grateful for all of you!
Love, Elder Connor Anderson
Our 2nd rendez-vous with Salome & her boyfriend
McD's
Bowling with the District in Nancy
























































