Monday, August 27, 2018

55th P-Day (48th in France)

Hey, everyone! How are you all? Feel free to send me a message if you ever want to. Sometimes I get tired talking about my experiences and would rather hear yours haha! Well, I hope that you are all doing well and feeling good. Without further ado, let's get right into this week!

Tuesday wasn't anything special. It was just a long finding day with not a lot of success, but hey... The weather was good, the Sun was out, and my tan was on! Gotta think of the positives, am I right?

Wednesday was also a finding day, but with a good ending. No, that "good ending" was not because we found anyone cool, but because we had a dinner appointment with the bishop and his family. Over the 6 months that I've been in this area, we have been constantly trying to visit him and his family and it has fallen through every time! But, we got lucky last Tuesday, and it finally happened. He catered it with these healthy and organic wraps and bagel sandwiches from the restaurant he owns and it was delicious! We were then able to eat it on his back patio, overlooking his huge and beautiful backyard. Such a relaxing way to end a long finding day. He and his wife are literally so cool. I love them! If you ever come to France, you have to meet the Duez family (and dine at their restaurant, Better Primeur ;). 

Thursday was good as well. Lots of finding, again, but we also had a rendez-vous with Sylvain and Aline. It went well and they are more serious about getting married now, so that's a bonus. Our finding actually produced some results as well. We found two cool women in the park. They were very interested in our message! I have hope for these ladies, so I can't wait to see where that goes! And we ended the night with fries and ice cream. What a nice day! 

The next day was another long finding day with a good ending. To finish our day, we had our district meeting in Lille. The activity was fun, as we did a Book of Mormon escape room that was really well prepared. I have such an amazing District Leader. We also took district pics, as it was the last district meeting of the transfer and we didn't know who would be transferred out. Look for those in my album. 

Saturday was another long finding day. A really cool 16ish year old boy approached us in the park and was super cool. He got our number and started texting me lots of questions. We then met up with him later that night, and he was very interested in our church. Here's hoping that that goes somewhere as well!

Sunday was odd. It was the first time in the whole 6 months that I've been here that we didn't have any investigators show up to church. It was kind of sad too, because I thought that it would be my last Sunday (transfer day is this coming Wednesday). Because of this, I brought my camera to church and tried to get pics with at least everyone who was in attendance. After church, we went to Soeur Giuli's house to give her the sacrament. Brother Moerman came with us this time and it was really nice. I also winged another lesson and it went so well that she started to cry! She then fed us another homemade dessert, as per usual. This time it was Peaches and Cream pie. It was so good. Definitely a hit! Then we went over for our rendez-vous with Sylvain and Aline and they were not home. This was sad for me, because I still believed that I would be leaving and I wanted to see them one last time.

Which brings me to today. Surprise, surprise... I'm staying at least one more transfer here. That will make 7 1/2 months that I'll have been here, and who knows? I could stay even longer. It was odd, because I had already said all of my goodbyes to the ward and everything. I was definitely not expecting this. I will be getting a new companion though, so here's to hoping that he's good and I enjoy our time together. I'm definitely going to need all of your prayers, so please feel free to help me out! The good news is that I don't have to stress and pack today, so I'm taking it easy on myself. One step at a time, very relaxed. 

One thing I rely on every transfer is hope. Hope that my companion and/or area is good. Hope that I love my ward. Hope that God knows where I need to be. It's all about hope. The lesson that I winged for the woman on Sunday was based on a video (that I had never seen before I shared it with her LOL) about Elder Uchtdorf's mom when he was little. I believe it's called, "A Mother's Hope," in English, but I'm unsure. It was a really good video! I encourage you all to go watch it. This particular member has Parkinson's disease and is having a really hard time with life in general. After sharing the video, I told her about how she was that mom for her children, and how she must now be that mom for herself. Relying on the Lord and putting hope in Him will change our lives! Especially in difficult moments, you will see that hope will make everything better. I know it has for me on my mission, and I know that it can for you all. I encourage you to cling to your hope when moments get hard. You guys can get through anything with the Lord! Get out there and conquer your challenges! I love you all!

Elder Connor Anderson

Us with Batman




Pictures with Ward members because I thought I was being transferred!












Zone Conference


Book of Mormon Escape room for District meeting


Valenciennes




Sylvaine & Aline


The Bishop & his family


The Carcassonne Elders in the Lyon mission finally met with Isabelle-- my referral from Epinal. So happy! Apparently she loves me and they were asking what they need to do to get her to love them too! haha She apparently slipped $40 into each of their pockets as they were leaving!






District Meeting pics













Elevator light malfunction


Monday, August 20, 2018

54th P-Day (47th in France)...The Second Year Begins!!!

Hey, everyone! I don't have a lot of time to write today, but it was definitely an eventful first week to the start of my second year here. 

Monday night, our eternal investigator, Marc, took us to one of the most expensive restaurants in Valenciennes. It was a really good time spent with him. I'll upload pictures of it to my album. 

Tuesday was a long finding day. We had good weather, though, so that was nice!

The next day we had a rendez-vous with Sylvain and Aline that went really well. We also had a dinner appointment that night with the Kabongo family in Belgium. It was a good day!

Thursday was my year mark! We started off with district meeting in Lille. Then we went up to Belgium for our meeting with Adam and his family. They made us a really good Indian dinner as well. Then we came back to Lille so that I could pick up Elder Crane and do exchanges with him back in Valenciennes... AKA: Exchanges the American way, where both companionships are in different areas. Usually here, both companionships will go to the same area and just switch comps, but we decided to switch it up. Then we came back and got some late night snacks at McDonald's. It was a good, busy day. 

Friday was also good. I baked a cake for our ward party on Saturday then we went finding. After that, we drove up to Mons in Belgium to get some acai bowls, because you can't get those in France (unless you're in Paris). So worth it. Love those things! I'll attach pics to the album of these as well. Then we came back and met up with Ragnarok (the trans woman). It went well and she asked to have us back next week, so that should be interesting.

Saturday was my favorite day. We had our ward party up at Adam's house (the American family) in Mons. We showed up early and helped the Cardwells set up. We had investigators, members, and just non-members who aren't investigating show up. We all had so much fun. Sylvain and Aline are now the favorite investigators because they brought so many things: bouncy castle, sumo wrestling, cotton candy machine, chocolate fountain, etc. I love them. This party lasted all day and was very productive for us. It definitely strengthened our relationships with everyone there. I'll attach pics/videos of this. 

Sunday was pretty much uneventful. Sylvain and Aline came to church for a second time, so that was nice. The ward loves them and that honestly helps. David, as always, followed me around. I'm just happy that we're not teaching him anymore. 

Today we had our district P-Day up in Lille. We grabbed a bite to eat and then played ultimate frisbee for a few hours, before coming back to the church to write e-mails. 

It was a great week and I know that it was all because of your prayers. They really mean a lot and my testimony has grown so much of the power of prayer since I've been on my mission. I know that it has the power to change so much in your life and in the lives of others. I encourage you all to pray for change/help for yourself and/or others. God knows where each of you are and what each of you are going through, so He wants to communicate with you and help you through everything. Your prayers have all helped me so much and I'm so grateful for them!

Have a great week!

Love,
Elder Connor Anderson